r/NoStupidQuestions • u/IdeaExpensive3073 • 27d ago

How is it women notice men checking them out but I’ve never noticed women doing it to men, and especially me?

Note: I’ve been told that they were checking me out before, so I know it’s happening.

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u/mladyhawke 27d ago

I'm guessing that women don't just stare at your crotch.The whole time they're talking to you

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u/A_Trash_Homosapien 27d ago

Even if they did I'm not convinced I'd notice. I'd probably just think I was making her uncomfortable and she was staring at the floor to avoid eye contact

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u/Chromehounds96 27d ago

Damn, exactly this xD

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u/cravf 27d ago

Relatively recently I was at work and one of my female coworkers told me that there have been multiple conversations amongst the other female staff about my penis. It blew my mind because not only was I not aware the outline of my dick shows through my scrubs, but also I did not know that women were looking and talking to each other about it. I'm not a particularly shy person but this did catch me off guard.

Anyway, ever since then I have caught other female staff looking at my crotch. I would have never noticed had my coworkers not told me it was going on.

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u/Wonderful-Tie1260 27d ago

That’s weird did that make you uncomfortable? If so you should call them out

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u/angrykoala49 24d ago

Unless those conversations were them attempting to figure out which one of them had to bite the bullet and let you know in case it was accidental (and even then it’s still weird as hell) that sounds like sexual harassment.

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u/D-a-H-e-c-k 27d ago

Arms, they like arms. When I had nice arms women would touch them all the time. Randomly as they walked past. People I worked with and strangers too.

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u/TopProfessional6291 27d ago

That's socially accepted sexual harassment. I hated that when I was buff and fit.

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u/Acrobatic_Category68 26d ago

Yeah, you nailed it here....I have muscular and very veiny arms....i catch women checking out my arm veins all the time. Honest, i only notice because my wife does it to me constantly, and she is very blatant and vocal about what she is looking at...so i definitely notice when i get those same arm glances from women...like i can see them tracing my veins with their eyes in the middle of a conversation

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u/Delicious-Shirt7188 27d ago

You'd really wish they don't

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u/Old_RedditIsBetter 26d ago

Well if I couldn't see the make and model of a woman's pussy from 20 yards away i wouldnt either....

But here we are in 2024 with yoga pants more custom fitted then ever

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u/Emotional-Shower9374 24d ago

I sure hope you dont stare

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u/ThatAltAccount99 25d ago

I'm ngl I struggle maintaining eye contact and usually look more down and always end up concerned that they think I'm staring at their chest

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u/iAMthebank 25d ago

A woman I worked with WOULD stare at my crotch the entire time.

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u/mladyhawke 24d ago

That's horrible,  I'm sorry,  yuck

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u/nonfictionaddiction 23d ago

It's not a stare, but women be looking the bulge for sure. Double glances.