r/NoStupidQuestions • u/IdeaExpensive3073 • 27d ago

How is it women notice men checking them out but I’ve never noticed women doing it to men, and especially me?

Note: I’ve been told that they were checking me out before, so I know it’s happening.

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u/Mysterious-Region640 27d ago

Women are definitely more discreet, but I also think that men don’t pick up on things the same way women do

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u/Hot-Ground-9731 27d ago

I don't. I wouldn't know if a woman is hitting on me unless she flat-out told me

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u/thatoneotherguy42 27d ago

Like I would believe them anyway.

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u/Krieg_Imperator 27d ago

Yep. I've had... Bad experiences with this. Whenever it happens my first reaction is to try to find the one holding the phone/camera that is filming.

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u/ganymedestyx 27d ago

Just wanted to share a story with you guys because this thread is so funny to me as a woman🤣:

When I first started hanging out with my current boyfriend, we would drive around together for a long time and go to parks, etc. to hang out. He was very shy and I could tell he wouldn’t make a move even if he did like me, so I would have to come up with something. One night, we had just left a lake and were trying to figure out what to do next. He goes, “What should we do?” I think of a genius idea, and before I can freeze or regret it, I say in a very causally way, “Well, we could go to a park, we could make out, we could get food, go to Walmart, I dunno.” I just slipped it in there, and he paused, eyes wide. He goes, “Uhhh…. anyways!!!” And then changes the topic, looking a bit spaced out in his own world for a while. I was MORTIFIED. I immediately texted my friend about the disaster and he was like “That was so smooth I can’t believe it didn’t work!” I cried when he dropped me off that night.

Two weeks later, he CLEARLY starts acting like he likes me. So I make another subtle move (cuddle while watching show) and he reciprocated. Eventually, we got to the point where we did kiss and I went, “So, why did you reject me in the car that night?!” He looked so embarrassed and replied that he thought I was joking, that there was literally a 0% chance I could have been serious, and wasn’t sure how to respond. We still joke about it today.

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u/manism 27d ago

Way back in the day this girl invited me to a party at her place. Towards the end of the night I had sobered up and helped them clean up, and she said, "You should sleep on the couch, its super late."

I was like, "I live 5 minutes away, I'll be fine." She insisted, I said I'd rather sleep in a bed, she said I could sleep in her bed. Again I was like, "It's five minutes, I'm not gonna put you out of your bed for a five minute drive."

Went home, had a good night's sleep, woke up and immediately realized I was an idiot

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u/AGM-Prism 27d ago

Nah bro she said you could sleep in her bed?! Definitely fumbled 😭

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u/kyrgyzmcatboy 26d ago

Generational level fumble.

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u/Baronvondorf21 26d ago

The ancestors felt that one.

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u/Kayd3nBr3ak 27d ago

I really hope you shot up gasping song "FUCK I'M AN IDIOT! "

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u/EventEastern9525 26d ago

Any man who is honest with himself has a similar story. I’ve got several. Just didn’t understand the signs at that stage of life.

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u/IAmTheNightSoil 26d ago

I'm glad you said this because I once had a girl I really liked invite me to crash in her bed and I didn't connect the dots or make any move, and I've always felt uniquely stupid for this and assumed no other dude on earth would have been as clueless as me in that moment haha

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u/chickenthinkseggwas 26d ago

A girl once told me "I'm about to proposition you" after I made her laugh. I ignored that, because I simply couldn't make sense of it.

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u/Suspicious-Brick 26d ago

My current boyfriend did this. Offered him to stay on the sofa after a bbq and he made his excuses and went home. In the end (a few weeks later) I had to ask him 'are you ever going to kiss me?' ! It's now a bit of a joke between us. He had no idea what was going on despite fancying me until I asked him directly about kissing me. Sometimes the art of flirtation and subtlety is just a lost art!

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u/No-Humor-5951 27d ago

Been there.

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u/mnid92 26d ago

In a roundabout weird way, you did the right thing. Had a buddy hook up with a drunk chick that led to him getting SA charges because the girl said she didn't remember. Neither did he, but hey, that's how that stuff goes.

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u/big_data_mike 27d ago

Sounds about right. I literally don’t know what I would do if a woman openly hit on me because it has never happened…..that I could tell at least. My knee jerk reaction would probably be to just freeze or move on to another topic as quickly as possible. Then think about it later and come up with a plan or something.

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u/yeno443443 27d ago edited 27d ago

Me right here. Didn't recognize it two different times. No 3, there was even one chick at a school dance too I didn't realize was clearly attracted to me until later. 4th, When I was a senior in high school some freshman girls left hearts and stuff in my locker on valentines day and i genuinely had no idea who it was. I thought it was a joke and something would spray me or something but nope. Friend of mine saw them while i was eating lunch like clockwork, neither of us knew any of the freshman class.

The 2nd time some girl in senior class i was into even thought i was "cute" and i didn't know it at the time. Some months later her friend tells me after it was too late. I really wanted to date her too.

I had no fucking idea

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u/TheZenMeister 27d ago

When I was a teen I worked in retail and friends I made that were girls were my wingwomen. Always telling me who liked me.

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u/BiDer-SMan 27d ago

Just to make you feel a little better, it may have happened and you didn't really notice. I invited a gal over to my place once just to hang out since we were friends and she shows up in full makeup and fishnet stockings to 'watch some tv' with me. We only ended up watching TV and I had no idea why she kept putting her legs on me. If this all sounds really obvious I still only understood this entire exchange a decade later.

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u/v_craft94 26d ago

I was with friends in this desert tour once, our guide was this tall arab/greece guy who actually works as a model+gym coach on the side so he's really fit. One of my friends kept checking him out, and he panicked lol. He asked my husband and I multiple times if there's smth wrong with how he looks, and we told him he's fine, he's just too hot for our friend at the back. The guy stared at us like we were talking in simlish.

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u/flowbe12 26d ago

I took out two girls on a 4th of July date and dinner. They were both a few years older than me too, I was like 19 at the time. When I dropped them off at their place, one of them invited me to come in...I said it was kind of late and drove off. To this day I'm still kicking myself. I could have had a double header.

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u/HisFaithRestored 25d ago

I had a friend I was interested in casually mention I should be careful of her dad after she invited me to her bday party. Probably entirely missed that one lol.

Had another friend talk about her sex life with me, show me marks on the top of her breasts, and occasionally say I was hot. Never made a move there either.

Lot of hints I entirely missed lol

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u/Jennysparking 24d ago edited 24d ago

I'll admit, I asked out all but one of the men I've dated, including my husband. I'm direct and I don't have a lot of patience with 'gosh do they like me?' I never had a guy say no, but if any of them had, I would never ask again. Like, if a guy came back later and was like 'actually I am interested' I would probably have said no. I wouldn't have even thought about it being a nerves thing, I would have assumed the guy just didn't like me enough to immediately say yes but thought about it and decided I was better than nothing. Or that he was screwing with me. Either way, a guy who was genuinely just flustered and wanted to 'come up with a plan' would have lost his shot. Just something to keep in mind if it ever does happen, I can't say every girl out there who asks men out are as no-nonsense about getting with someone they like as I am, but I wouldn't be surprised if a lot of them are. If I liked someone I didn't want to wonder if they liked me, I wanted to know so we could move on to the fun stuff. If someone wasn't eager and happy to be asked I would probably pass, just because I wouldn't want to get with anyone who wasn't as delighted as I was at the opportunity to get together.

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u/AF2005 27d ago

Yep (as a guy) I’ve been there a few times 😂 I was a blockhead in my early twenties. She would have to give me a certified letter explicitly stating she wanted to hook up. And it would have to be notarized 🤣 It’s worse because I didn’t even realize these girls were into me until weeks later!

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u/CitzenZim 27d ago

My wife and I were essentially set up by a mutual friend (f) who knew we liked each other and had to tell me outright.

I think people underestimate how many men don't think their gods gift to women and think the exact opposite, that women have zero interest in them to the point they stop noticing signs or even really looking.

If my wife had made the comment you had I would have thought she was 100% joking or that I had simply misheard.

As I'm told there were parties in college that had different women literally hanging on my side/shoulder and I had no idea. I thought they were just having a good time. I wouldn't say it was a lack of confidence but rather I just couldn't imagine myself as a target of someones attraction, I just figured I wasn't people's 'cup of tea' and eventually I would just sorta meet someone organically. Of course organically was and I quote "ok you both like each other just ask her out already."

Im glad that you two were at least able to break the ice and see where things go.

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u/Flailing_snailing 27d ago

One time in middle school (of course middle school) there was this girl that really liked me. We hung out all the time in between periods, we would read together, I would walk with her to her classes because they were close/we had the same classes, and just generally got along together.

She would hug me and get really close to me, wrap her arms around me, I would offer her my jacket because I thought she was cold, cutesy stuff. A month or two later she comes up to me fairly upset saying that she isn’t really sure she wants to be dating me anymore, she felt like she was putting in all the effort in our relationship and that I wasn’t putting in any of the work.

She was one hundred percent right because I had no idea we were dating. I just thought all that cutesy stuff was just things that girls did with their friends and that it all just extended to me.

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u/IAmTheNightSoil 26d ago

Hahaha OK I gotta know: what did you say to her? Did you tell her "I didn't know we were dating"? Or did you just try to play it off? How did she take it?

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u/PowerPuzzleheaded897 26d ago

Yes please do tell

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u/Flailing_snailing 26d ago

I was not at all smooth enough to try and play it off nor did I want to. I straight up told her I had no idea and she was completely dumbfounded. We spent a whole lunch period going over all of the cutesy couple stuff we did and and me explaining how I saw it from my point of view.

Up until this exact point my only interaction with girls was them having cooties and them giving me “potions” (various liquids of unknown origin mixed together). I had no idea what a relationship was like or what it entailed so even if we were dating I didn’t know what to do,

We ended up “breaking up” and stayed friends for a while but gradually lost contact after she moved up north.

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u/IAmTheNightSoil 26d ago

Wow man, that is crazy. She must have been so shocked haha. And you as well. You'd think she'd have noticed that you guys never made out or anything (assuming you didn't, that it) and taken that as a clue? Youth is such a confusing time

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u/Flailing_snailing 26d ago

We were both shocked lol. We both went to a private catholic school so even kissing would make Jesus cry and hate us and Satan himself would drag us down to hell (real story the nuns told us when they “caught us” being together). Even the hugging drew some stares from people lol.

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u/Hot-mic 27d ago

I've been married now for a very long time, but when I was young and in college, I wondered why I couldn't get any dates. Then looking back on that time in my life I finally realized I was getting hit on all the time, but too shy and naive to realize it. Girls from classes asking me for a ride home, girls asking to study with me and one even showing me her bedroom and sitting on the bed! Whoosh. It took a bold girl who pushed me down on the bed and went to town after telling me how bad she wanted me. The next girl I actually made a move on turned out not to be my type. The next one after that made the aggressive moves again and that's my wife.

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u/0xDizzy 27d ago

youre a real one lol that was smooth af

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u/Tearsforfearsforever 27d ago

I'm in high school. Junior I think. I am talking to the girl I've had a crush on for 3 years. I literally ask her, "So what kind of guys do you like?" She says, without hesitation, "Guys with long hair." I respond, "ok." And Dismissed it. 5 years later I realize I was the only guy with hair past his neck in our small school! D'oh!! Guys literally are oblivious.

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u/Affectionate-Sea7233 27d ago

I have been single for about 15 years. It has become so normal that i dont pick signals enymore.
About a year ago one of my customers needed help with her car about 8 pm and i went there to help here. After i see that was a minor issue i got a little angry since this wasnt a emergency and i started to talk about the issue and the fix i did. After about 15 minutes of her being flirty and me dont realizing it, she toll me if i want to come in and "see the lion king". Wich i said wtf is wrong with this person and left the place.

I was in the car and a friend call me on my phone and i toll him what she said, and my friend laugh so hard that i then realize what she wanted.

The did happen in a later date when she come to my workshop to "fix" her car.

I am a 36 years old man. (In spanish i can tell this story with more funny details)

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u/Monommtg 27d ago edited 27d ago

That was a great response from him. The apology that put u on a pedestal. And really, what else could the reason have been. The truth will set u free

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u/NSLoneWanderer 27d ago

I was at a girl's house after having a few drinks and she asked if I wanted to make out as I was about to leave, but I thought she was just trying to get me to hang out longer and laughed because we had work the next morning and it was already late, so I proceeded to leave.

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u/ElGato-TheCat 27d ago

I can't speak for all men, but I'm going to: None of us would've believed you

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u/bmscott 27d ago

Yeah, there was this girl in our <social grouping> who was all over me at gatherings. One time I knew she was planning a girls-only (or at least, -mostly) party and didn't expect to go, but she insisted I attend. That night, she's all over me, even tied me to a chair, then as the party broke up she insisted I stay over as it was starting to snow.... I said "nah, it's fine, I've driven home in worse than this!" Finally she had to hold my face and stare at me and say "I want you to stay with me tonight!!"...

Another time, a woman agreed to go on a weeklong road trip with me, just the two of us (I was celebrating my 30th). I figured she was looking forward to the travel. Noticed, but didn't think much about, how she seemed oddly disappointed every time I booked separate hotel rooms.... Didn't figure out what was up until we were nearly back home, and we held hands for the last few miles, then had a great 3-month fling (To be fair, when we'd met 3+ years previously as work colleagues, she mentioned she had a boyfriend; but then she insisted we keep in touch after I left the company, and we started hanging out - I figured her boyfriend was just a homebody type! And all that time she thought we were dating)

I could go on. I mean, I really have no idea who might've been interested in me, over the years! But I got a great wife and 2 kids in high school now so eventually it worked...

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u/Freefoodfunday 27d ago

I’m afraid my stories are the absolute worst, but it was high school me and I no longer identify as that absolutely shithead, this happened more than a few times. Around 11th grade (91-92) I glowed up. Caught the punk rock scene, no longer tried to fit in with sporties, started a band, liked interesting music, got a punk style all my own, and suddenly I wasn’t invisible anymore. One time a cute girl passed me a note in class (hey I think you’re cool and I sorta like you vibe) I was so nerded out and immature I showed it to a bunch of friends and laughed like it was this ridiculous thing and isn’t this so funny. I had absolutely no idea on how to handle it. Another girl had some friends (or the friends volunteered it to me) tell me she liked me. I once again immediately spread the rumor to friends laughing about it. I had no idea how to deal with someone being attracted to me I was so such a little imbecile. This girl also was cute and cool. Oh gawd I hate the kid that did that. When I finally got a girl we went out a bunch of times and eventually she realized that I was so lost and incapable of putting on a move, she just started kissing me when I was mid sentence. I’ll never forget that one.

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u/TrustAinge 26d ago

99 of 100 men would think you were joking.

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u/straightedge1974 27d ago

Very sweet story. :)

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u/penguin_skull 26d ago

All men have at least one situation like this. I'm 40 and I still cringe at missed opportinities from 15-20 years ago because I was too shy / dumb to read the hints. And even when I read the hints correctly, the 5% chance of her joking held me back from taking action.

So, yes. Some men need an airport guy with luminous flags to point the right way for them sometimes.

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u/Frakshaw 26d ago

Even before I read the part where you mentioned it, I thought to myself "yeah I'd think this was thrown in as a joke"

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u/oneeyedziggy 26d ago

There's so much emphasis on explicit consent now you need to get as close to presenting a signed contract as possible... Like texting some unambiguous invitation to whatever activities you consent to... or most of us are going to be worried about it being our word against yours and being branded at least a creep and ruining a good thing... ( if she didn't want it, onewwould hope she says no before it got to rape, that seems less likely in reality, but that's still in the back of our minds, that she needs to explicitly say "yes"... Ideally in writing, not just neglect to say "no" or it might be straight to jail... As if the justice system ever trusts women... But there's always the chance we'd be the exception ), and the ones who aren't concerned about it... Well... Word is you'd rather beaalone in the woods with a bear.

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u/utterlynuts 26d ago

When I met my starter husband he was a virgin and I was not (I'm comfortable with my choices).

Well, he had a long time female "best friend" and he was so in love with her and wanted to make a move but, from what he tells me, she clearly decided to just make the moves herself and would whip off her shirt, turn around and ask him to undo her bra for her and insist he give her a massage because her back was stiff and he "gives the Best massages". and he DID NOT EVEN SUSPECT THAT THIS WAS ODD. Spoiler: he gave absolutely shit massages and was pretty whiney about his hands getting tired.

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u/AggravatingBite9188 26d ago

I actually had a girl do it to me as a joke :/ nervous laughter afterwards oh haha duh ya were just friends haha

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u/Kurotan 25d ago

A girl kissed me in high school and my only reaction was to ask "what was that for?" A whole week later. Which got me another kiss and eventually a prom date. But I definitely got ditched at prom so I dunno. I've only dated one girl in my late 20's, I definitely wait for women to ask me out which never happens. No idea what flirting looks like.

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u/bvgingy 24d ago

Back during college, it was during summer break so basically every night was hanging out at the bars or a pregame at someones house. There was this one woman who was at some of the events depending on what friend group(s) was there and she was out with our group at a trivia night. And by group, Im talking about 75% of the people at this bar, so it was more like multiple groups. Well, I went over to this group that had this woman in it and I was talking to some of the people there and she didnt say anything the whole time.

Later that night, I was talking to one of my other friends who is closer to her and I asked her what was up with her friend because she kept standing next to me and looking/staring at me, but never said anything. Turns out, she wanted me to talk to her and was giving me "signs" lmao.

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u/Whatdoyouwannaknow- 24d ago

This story is the cutest thing ever! Thank you for sharing! Your a great story teller as well🙌🏻 true talent

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u/NobleEnsign 23d ago

Yes, if you slip it in like that it sounds like a joke. It also just sounds sarcastic.

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u/yarmo88 27d ago

If you had shown him nipples or something, wouldn't that have taken care of things instead of verbally slipping in the make out idea?

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u/Hot-Ground-9731 27d ago

It's gotta be a joke. No woman would ever hit on me

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u/Krieg_Imperator 27d ago

Yeah... That's why I started to hit the gym. One day I'll be strong enough so people will not hurt me ever again.

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u/Blackbox7719 27d ago

Gotta hit the cardio. It’s done wonders in helping me run away from heartbreak.

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u/Krieg_Imperator 27d ago

I hear you but heaviest weights are the feels we lift.

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u/Top-Vermicelli7279 27d ago

Maybe the worst weights are the friends we make along the way

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u/edgygothteen69 27d ago

Make sure to have one rest day per week to rest your weary soul

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u/RehabMuffin 27d ago

Talk about literally carrying the team…

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u/Jack_Mehoff_420_69 27d ago

pun intended?

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u/Mikeinthedirt 27d ago

No, it worked out to about 1 in 15.

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u/Traveling_Solo 27d ago

When does the running start? Walking at 8 km/h (5mph) so far :/

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u/masterkiller417 27d ago

bro ur a cornball💀 

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u/Krieg_Imperator 27d ago

I'm too old to know what that means

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u/i_illustrate_stuff 27d ago

Cornball is an old old word, you might be too young lol. It means corny.

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u/Krieg_Imperator 27d ago

Whatever you say son

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u/Longjumping-Royal727 27d ago

What did Jim do to you?

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u/Krieg_Imperator 27d ago

Saved my life from self oof

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u/rory888 27d ago

except in the feels.

Better do those emotional resistance exercises.

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u/EyeWriteWrong 27d ago

No, I am the horrid spirit of reddit and I will hurt you in this life and the next. Your shirt is on backwards.

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u/HardBart 26d ago

Try to break your heart, gotta get trough em pecs first!

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u/No-Soft-9512 27d ago

Hit the gym enough and the only people that check you out will be other guys 😂

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u/Krieg_Imperator 27d ago

Tells more about you though...

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u/Kapika96 27d ago

Not always a joke. They could be trying to recruit you into a cult too!

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u/BoogerEatinMoran 27d ago edited 27d ago

Then after having a number of experiences like this, if you ever tell one of them who (supposedly) really is interested that this is why you hesitated to approach at first, they get offended, as if your prior experiences with women aren't supposed to have some kind of affect on you.

They really do come across as hypocrites and psychos sometimes. That kind of response only demonstrates a complete lack of an ability to empathise with someone else's perspective.

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u/EmiliaFromLV 27d ago edited 27d ago

The thing is.. you can just hold up the phone pretending to be busy on it, while instead you can actually check a guy on camera mode. Just gotta find the right angle and pretend to look busy and self-absorbed.

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u/makingkevinbacon 27d ago

If I see anyone holding a phone that looks like it could even remotely be filming me I'm shooting a dirty look. I feel like if almost always noticeable if someone is recording you on a big phone

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u/abarrelofmankeys 27d ago

I will literally glare at people at the gym. I don’t even think they’re actually filming me, but you should be considerate enough there not to make people uncomfortable.

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u/Leading_Sir_1741 27d ago

I always do the helicopter in such situations. Not many gyms will have me, anymore.

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u/makingkevinbacon 27d ago

Yea the gym seems like a spot where your phone shouldn't be out but obviously not possible since people use tunes or have their workout on their. Being self conscious is the biggest thing that's always stopped me from going to the gym. I get exercise outside and stuff but in the gym I just feel like every one is staring...like "oh look at that overweight dude he can't even lift right". And I KNOW probably 98% of people in the gym wouldn't think that because a)most of the time people are focusing on themselves and workout and b) I don't wanna live in a world where an experienced gym person has those thoughts over literally teaching me, since they have more knowledge. I like to think people aren't inherently jerks

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u/flatfast90 27d ago

Yeah, you hold the phone at different angles if you’re using it vs stalking. At least that’s what I hear….

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u/KWyKJJ 26d ago

No, no. No.

You give them the Zoolander Blue Steel!

Always.

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u/makingkevinbacon 25d ago

What about magnum? Or Le Tigre??

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u/oneeyedziggy 26d ago

Yea, i (male) explicitly hold my phone with my finger on the lens to avoid accidental misunderstandings...

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u/a1tim611kindaguy 27d ago

Is that even possible? Like the camera has to be facing them, you’re gonna have to be so calculated.

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u/EmiliaFromLV 27d ago

Lol, just pretend that you are checking your makeup on the phone - nobody knows which way camera is facing.

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u/Alternative-Cash8411 27d ago

This. Women do This all the time, fake talking on their phones. I like it when it rings while they're doin it. LOL. Sometimes I'll even laugh and say "Busted!"

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u/SilasX 27d ago

Yes, that’s called a creepshot, or at least it is when men do it to women.

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u/AccessProfessional37 26d ago

So if a guy does that how is that different from stalking

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u/EmiliaFromLV 26d ago

But the OPs question was not about guys tho.

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u/Sad-Welcome-8048 26d ago

That's creepy as fuck, no thanks

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u/Ultimate_Sneezer 27d ago

Its not your fault, women are just bad at flirting

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u/Krieg_Imperator 27d ago

I meant that once a woman approached me flirting, told I look cute etc. And when I asked would she be interested going out she start laughing at me and pointing "with you? Ew" and then I saw her friend filming me so they'd get my humiliated reaction. So yeah... Whenever a woman approaches me I'll check for the one filming

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u/Jack_Bogul 27d ago

And then beat em up

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u/negiman4 27d ago

I've had very similar experiences. Teenagers, especially teenage girls, have a special brand of cruelty. Those kind of experiences stick with you, and they're really hard to move past. I'm 29 and those experiences still haunt me.

That's trauma, baby! Man, I need a therapist lol...

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u/adp63 27d ago

How are all these people getting together?

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u/1lluminist 27d ago

Man, I'm not even sure how I feel right now knowing that this isn't just a "me" thing. This ruined me for so much of what should have been my dating life.

I've always had a great self-esteem, but also severe trust issues when it comes to moments of vulnerability. I'm getting better over time, though.

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u/pablo__13 27d ago

It’s sad that it’s like this

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u/masterofreality2001 27d ago

Take out your own camera, assert dominance 

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u/Atlesi_Feyst 27d ago

I gave up after a few failed dates and wasted time / emotions.

I would rather wait until I'm financially stable now before I start thinking about a relationship, I want to own my vehicle / be able to hold a savings first. Being broke / having debt makes me feel like a waste in a relationship.

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u/Scrabble_4 27d ago

Any woman who would do that is not human. Women tend to be more focused on a great relationship and so that type of behaviour is a huge flag that SHE is not worth it.

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u/[deleted] 27d ago

Kiss or slap? Lol

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u/Jissy01 27d ago

😂

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u/Krieg_Imperator 27d ago

I'm glad you find my bad experiences entertaining

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u/Jissy01 26d ago

I misread. I thought you're holding a camera.

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u/Krieg_Imperator 26d ago

Yeah nah. I told the story below but to keep it short. Once I was approached by a beautiful woman. She was flirting and told me I look cute etc. I asked her out and immediately she pulls 180 and starts pointing at me and says "with you? Ew". Then I see her friend filming me and my humiliation. So yeah. If someone approaches e my first instinct is too look for the one filming.