r/NoStupidQuestions • u/IdeaExpensive3073 • 27d ago
How is it women notice men checking them out but I’ve never noticed women doing it to men, and especially me?
Note: I’ve been told that they were checking me out before, so I know it’s happening.
8.3k
Upvotes
274
u/sparklecadet 27d ago
12 was when grown men, like construction men, would smile at me and make comments at me. This was my experience, as well as the experience of almost every other woman I know who grew up in NYC. Maybe NYC is unique in this respect, but sadly, I doubt it.